{"id":924,"date":"2015-05-14T19:55:10","date_gmt":"2015-05-14T19:55:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=924"},"modified":"2015-05-14T19:55:10","modified_gmt":"2015-05-14T19:55:10","slug":"lynskilsmisse-fraskilt-med-et-klik","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=924","title":{"rendered":"Lynskilsmisse: En nem l\u00f8sning"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Lynskilsmisse: Fraskilt med et klik<\/span><\/h1>\n

Tidligere var det en obligatorisk del af et skilsmisseforl\u00f8b at v\u00e6re separeret i seks m\u00e5neder inden en endelig skilsmisse<\/a> kunne finde sted. <\/span><\/p>\n

Reelt kunne det blive l\u00e6ngere tid pga. sagsbehandlingstider – min egen skilsmisse tog ti m\u00e5neder.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nu har vi ogs\u00e5 f\u00e5et lyn-skilsmissen. Du logger dig p\u00e5 borger.dk, og 1-2-3 er du fraskilt. I medierne har vi h\u00f8rt historier om, at den nye form har givet anledning til fortrydelser. At folk midt i sk\u00e6nderier bliver skilt for s\u00e5 at fortryde det dage (eller timer) senere. Sagsbehandlingen kritiseres for at v\u00e6re FOR hurtig.
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Dette scenarie ligger meget langt fra den erfaring, jeg har fra mit arbejde som psykoterapeut<\/a> med speciale i og skilsmisse<\/a>. Jeg kender ikke til nogen, der har valgt en skilsmisse som en \\”let\\” l\u00f8sning. Ingen der har valgt at blive skilt, fordi man kedede sig lidt, savnede tid til sig selv eller ans\u00e5 det for attraktivt med b\u00f8rnefri dage. Eller fordi der simpelthen bare skulle ske noget andet.<\/span><\/p>\n

At blive skilt er bestemt ingen let l\u00f8sning<\/span><\/h4>\n

Jeg kender derimod til skilsmisser, der har v\u00e6ret gennemt\u00e6nkte – i flere tilf\u00e6lde for gennemt\u00e6nkte. Hvor det ene \u00e5r har taget det andet i h\u00e5bet om, at det hele ville blive bedre i morgen\/efter ferien\/til sommer\/n\u00e5r b\u00f8rnene bliver st\u00f8rre. <\/span><\/p>\n

Der kan g\u00e5 mange \u00e5r, hvor manglen p\u00e5 n\u00e6rhed vokser og interessen for partneren svinder ind. Kunden og afstanden vokser og \u00e6gtef\u00e6llerne kredser oftere og oftere om skilsmisse. I tankerne – og ofte ogs\u00e5 i sk\u00e6nderier.<\/span><\/p>\n

Skilsmisse og tilknytning<\/span><\/h4>\n

Den gamle talem\u00e5de \\”man ved hvad man har, men ikke hvad man f\u00e5r\\” er s\u00e6rdeles aktuel her.
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Efter \u00e5r sammen er der dannet et b\u00e5nd mellem \u00e6gtef\u00e6llerne. Vi knytter os til vores \u00e6gtef\u00e6ller p\u00e5 samme m\u00e5de, som vi i sin tid var knyttet til vore for\u00e6ldre. Denne tilknytning giver tryghed, og det er nok det vigtigste ved at v\u00e6re menneske overhovedet: At h\u00f8re t\u00e6t sammen med nogen. Det f\u00f8les uoverskueligt og utrygt at g\u00e5. For hvordan bliver livet efter en skilsmisse?
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Alle ved, at en skilsmisse har konsekvenser. N\u00e5r du st\u00e5r midt i overvejelserne, m\u00e6rker du disse konsekvenser meget tydeligt. Det er de f\u00e6rreste, der har \u00f8je for fordelene ved en skilsmisse. Lige nu m\u00e6rker du kun frygten for det ukendte, skammen over at fejle, og sorgen over at miste den intakte familie med alt hvad det indeb\u00e6rer.
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Her h\u00f8rer bem\u00e6rkninger som \\”det er for let at blive skilt\\” slet ikke hjemme.
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Bliv glad igen efter skilsmissen<\/a><\/h4>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Lynskilsmisse: Fraskilt med et klik Tidligere var det en obligatorisk del af et skilsmisseforl\u00f8b at v\u00e6re separeret i seks m\u00e5neder inden en endelig skilsmisse kunne finde sted. Reelt kunne det blive l\u00e6ngere tid pga. sagsbehandlingstider – min egen skilsmisse tog ti m\u00e5neder. Nu har vi ogs\u00e5 f\u00e5et lyn-skilsmissen. Du logger dig p\u00e5 borger.dk, og 1-2-3 …<\/p>\n

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