{"id":6312,"date":"2017-09-08T07:31:28","date_gmt":"2017-09-08T07:31:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=6312"},"modified":"2017-09-08T07:31:28","modified_gmt":"2017-09-08T07:31:28","slug":"efter-skilsmissen-skal-ogsa-jeg-have-det-godt","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=6312","title":{"rendered":"Jeg skal ogs\u00e5 have det godt"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Jeg skal ogs\u00e5 have det godt!<\/span><\/h1>\n

Da jeg blev skilt manglede jeg en masse ting til mit hjem. En af dem var en kontorstol. Jeg valgte at k\u00f8be en i IKEA, som jeg nu har siddet p\u00e5 i 6 \u00e5r. I alle 6 \u00e5r har den v\u00e6ret lidt h\u00e5rd at sidde p\u00e5. Hjulene k\u00f8rer ikke s\u00e6rlig godt, mine b\u00f8rn har for l\u00e6ngst spildt maling p\u00e5 den og farven er \u2013 ja MEGET r\u00f8d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Det med farver har sin egen historie. For min eksmand var ret glad for sandfarvet, s\u00e5 der skulle virkelig skrues op for farverne, da jeg flyttede. For eksempel fik jeg orange gardiner, gul spisebordslampe, flaskegr\u00f8nne spisestuestole og r\u00f8de skabsl\u00e5ger p\u00e5 tv-m\u00f8blet.<\/span><\/p>\n

Men tilbage til kontorstolen.<\/span><\/p>\n

Jeg har som sagt ikke v\u00e6ret s\u00e6rlig begejstret for stolen, men havde egentlig ikke t\u00e6nkt, at den skulle skiftes ud. Den har fulgt mig gennem 2 flytninger: for 2,5 \u00e5r siden og for 2 m\u00e5neder siden uden at blive sorteret fra.<\/span><\/p>\n

Selvomsorg er vigtigt!<\/span><\/h2>\n

Men s\u00e5 var jeg med min datter i Jysk Senget\u00f8jslager. Der sad jeg pludselig p\u00e5 en kontorstol, som var behagelig at sidde p\u00e5. Den st\u00f8ttede fint i ryggen, var bl\u00f8d at sidde p\u00e5, jeg kunne endda n\u00e5 jorden (ingen selvf\u00f8lge, n\u00e5r man er 163 cm h\u00f8j, som jeg er). Lige d\u00e9r slog det mig: Jeg er da det v\u00e6rd! Det var min eksmands livsfilosofi at spare hvor spares kunne \u2013 ikke min! <\/span><\/p>\n

For mig er det vigtigt at have det rart. Det kan man sagtens have uden at bruge penge, men n\u00e5r man dag efter dag bliver ved med at sidde p\u00e5 den gamle, d\u00e5rlige stol, bare fordi den nu er der \u2013 ja s\u00e5 kan det v\u00e6re tid til at g\u00f8re noget godt for sig selv.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e5 det gjorde jeg. Og jeg nyder at v\u00e6re n\u00e5et dertil, hvor jeg g\u00f8r noget rart for mig selv uden at f\u00e5 d\u00e5rlig samvittighed over det.<\/span><\/p>\n

Og skulle det vise sig, at jeg ikke sidder s\u00e5 godt p\u00e5 den, som jeg tror \u2013 s\u00e5 g\u00e5r der ikke 6 \u00e5r, f\u00f8r jeg skifter den ud. Det vil jeg simpelthen ikke byde mig selv \u2013 l\u00e6ngere!<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Jeg skal ogs\u00e5 have det godt! Da jeg blev skilt manglede jeg en masse ting til mit hjem. En af dem var en kontorstol. Jeg valgte at k\u00f8be en i IKEA, som jeg nu har siddet p\u00e5 i 6 \u00e5r. I alle 6 \u00e5r har den v\u00e6ret lidt h\u00e5rd at sidde p\u00e5. Hjulene k\u00f8rer ikke …<\/p>\n

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