{"id":32833,"date":"2022-10-17T08:23:05","date_gmt":"2022-10-17T06:23:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=32833"},"modified":"2022-10-17T08:23:05","modified_gmt":"2022-10-17T06:23:05","slug":"frygter-hendes-eksmand-vender-bornene-mod-mig","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=32833","title":{"rendered":"Frygter hendes eksmand vender b\u00f8rnene mod mig"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Jeg frygter hendes eksmand vender b\u00f8rnene mod mig<\/span><\/h1>\n

S\u00f8ren har fundet k\u00e6rligheden efter skilsmisse for tre \u00e5r siden. K\u00e6resten er del af et tidligere vennepar, og eksmanden har stadig sv\u00e6rt ved at acceptere skilsmissen. S\u00f8ren frygter, eksmanden vender b\u00f8rnene mod ham. Hvad g\u00f8r han?<\/span><\/p>\n

# L\u00c6S S\u00d8RENS BREV:<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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\n\tHej Stine<\/p>\n

Vi er et fantastisk par midt i fyrrene.<\/p>\n

Efter at have v\u00e6ret venner i mange \u00e5r blev vi for 3 \u00e5r siden skilt og fandt k\u00e6rligheden sammen.<\/p>\n

Vi har aldrig m\u00e6rket s\u00e5dan en k\u00e6rlighed f\u00f8r – den er fantastisk.<\/p>\n

Min k\u00e6restes eksmand har det meget sv\u00e6rt med skilsmissen. Jeg er bange for at han tror vi har haft noget i vores venskab. Jeg kan sige med hele mit hjerte, at det kun har v\u00e6ret venskab.<\/p>\n

Efter 3 \u00e5r er min k\u00e6restes eksmand stadig vanvittig jaloux. Han vil stadigv\u00e6k ikke give slip p\u00e5 hende. Derfor er jeg frygtelig bange for at han h\u00e6vner sig, ved at s\u00e6tte hendes b\u00f8rn op imod mig.<\/p>\n

B\u00f8rnene er begyndt at opf\u00f8re sig underligt over for mig. Mest den mindste p\u00e5 11. Jeg kan slet ikke v\u00e6re i krop og hjerte. Det g\u00f8r frygteligt ondt. Jeg elsker de b\u00f8rn som venner.<\/p>\n

Hvad skal vi g\u00f8re ved han er ikke nem at snakke med?<\/p>\n

Jeg h\u00e5ber med hele mit hjerte, du kan hj\u00e6lpe<\/p>\n

Mvh S\u00f8ren<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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K\u00e6re S\u00f8ren<\/p>\n

Tillykke med at have fundet k\u00e6rligheden!<\/p>\n

Din k\u00e6restes eksmand har tidligere v\u00e6ret en god ven for dig. Jeg kan h\u00f8re, hvor meget det betyder for dig, at der er rene linier mellem jer.<\/p>\n

Naturligvis kunne jeg t\u00e6nker mig, at eksmanden valgte at tage ansvar for sine f\u00f8lelser og gik i terapi for at arbejde med det, der er sket. Han er en voksen mand, der skal tage ansvar for sit liv – ogs\u00e5 n\u00e5r livet ikke arter sig, som han kunne \u00f8nske sig.<\/p>\n

Men det er ikke ham, der skriver til mig. Derfor kan jeg ikke g\u00f8re noget, for at flytte ham et bedre sted hen, selvom jeg gerne ville. For det arbejde ville hj\u00e6lpe hans b\u00f8rn med at v\u00e6re i det her. <\/p>\n

Du og din k\u00e6reste kan heller ikke flytte ham. Det ligger uden for jeres evne at \u00e6ndre p\u00e5 hans f\u00f8lelser og tanker. <\/p>\n

I stedet kan du og din k\u00e6reste forts\u00e6tte med at opf\u00f8re jer respekfuldt omkring ham. For n\u00e5r alt kommer til alt har I lov til at v\u00e6re glade sammen. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Skriv dit eget sp\u00f8rgsm\u00e5l til brevkassen:<\/span><\/p>\n

brevkasse@stinezink.dk<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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B\u00f8rnene tr\u00e6der til<\/span><\/h2>\n

N\u00e5r voksne ikke f\u00e5r passet p\u00e5 sig selv, s\u00e5 sker det ofte, at b\u00f8rn tr\u00e6der til og g\u00f8r arbejdet for dem. <\/p>\n

Jeg g\u00e6tter p\u00e5, det er det, der er sket med den 11-\u00e5rige. <\/p>\n

I alt fald t\u00e6nker jeg, det gavner jer alle, hvis det er den udgave, I v\u00e6lger at holde fast i. <\/p>\n

For tanker om at eksmanden bevidst saboterer jeres forhold, gavner ingen.<\/p>\n

Din k\u00e6reste skal tage sig af sine b\u00f8rn. Lytte til dem. Rumme deres f\u00f8lelser. Det samme skal du, nu hvor du er i forhold med hende. <\/p>\n

Bliver jeg forladt?<\/span><\/h2>\n

Det kan v\u00e6re sv\u00e6rt for b\u00f8rn, n\u00e5r deres voksne har det sv\u00e6rt. P\u00e5 samme m\u00e5de kan det v\u00e6re sv\u00e6rt for b\u00f8rn, n\u00e5r deres voksne finder k\u00e6rligheden med en ny partner. <\/p>\n

For i forelskelsesfasen kan vi v\u00e6re frav\u00e6rende overfor andre – ogs\u00e5 vores b\u00f8rn. <\/p>\n

B\u00f8rn, hvis for\u00e6ldre er blevet skilt, har oplevet, at k\u00e6rlighed kan \u00e6ndre sig og f\u00f8re til brud. <\/p>\n

Som barn kan man frygte, at man ogs\u00e5 selv vil blive fravalgt. Man st\u00e5r mellem for\u00e6ldre, der g\u00e5r hver sin vej – m\u00e5ske endda hen imod en ny partner. <\/p>\n

Det kan rejse sp\u00f8rgsm\u00e5l omkring: Er der plads til mig nu? Derfor kan du udg\u00f8re en trussel set med barne\u00f8jne. <\/p>\n

Det er et vilk\u00e5r.<\/p>\n

Derfor t\u00e6nker jeg, at det bedste, du kan g\u00f8re, er, at holde fast i at v\u00e6re, som du plejer at v\u00e6re. <\/p>\n

Tr\u00e6d lidt i baggrunden og giv plads til at din k\u00e6restes b\u00f8rn kan f\u00e5 alenetid med mor.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Hold fokus<\/span><\/h2>\n

I kommer nok aldrig til at kunne overbevise eksmanden om, at jeres forhold f\u00f8rst er opst\u00e5et efter skilsmisserne. <\/p>\n

Brug ikke krudt p\u00e5 det. <\/p>\n

Pr\u00f8v om I kan hvile i at I vide, at I har gjort tingene i en respektfuld r\u00e6kkef\u00f8lge. <\/p>\n

Jo mere sikre og rolige I fremst\u00e5r, jo mere vil det smitte af p\u00e5 dem omkring jer.<\/p>\n

Jeg \u00f8nsker jer alt det bedste!<\/p>\n

K\u00e6rlig hilsen<\/p>\n

Stine<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Andre har ogs\u00e5 l\u00e6st:<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Fravalgt og psykisk nedk\u00f8rt efter skilsmisse<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Terapi er ikke et quick-fix<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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F\u00e5 hj\u00e6lp til dine udfordringer hos psykoterapeut Stine Zink<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Jeg frygter hendes eksmand vender b\u00f8rnene mod mig S\u00f8ren har fundet k\u00e6rligheden efter skilsmisse for tre \u00e5r siden. K\u00e6resten er del af et tidligere vennepar, og eksmanden har stadig sv\u00e6rt ved at acceptere skilsmissen. S\u00f8ren frygter, eksmanden vender b\u00f8rnene mod ham. Hvad g\u00f8r han? # L\u00c6S S\u00d8RENS BREV: Hej Stine Vi er et fantastisk par …<\/p>\n

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