{"id":32705,"date":"2022-06-25T16:49:38","date_gmt":"2022-06-25T14:49:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=32705"},"modified":"2022-06-25T16:49:38","modified_gmt":"2022-06-25T14:49:38","slug":"min-kaereste-vil-flytte-fordi-min-datter-har-det-svaert","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=32705","title":{"rendered":"Min k\u00e6reste vil flytte, fordi min datter har det sv\u00e6rt"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\\\"pl-32705\\\"  class=\\\"panel-layout\\\" >\n<div id=\\\"pg-32705-0\\\"  class=\\\"panel-grid panel-no-style\\\"  data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;,&quot;cell_alignment&quot;:&quot;flex-start&quot;}\\\" >\n<div id=\\\"pgc-32705-0-0\\\"  class=\\\"panel-grid-cell\\\"  data-weight=\\\"0.66666666666667\\\" >\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-0-0-0\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-first-child widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"0\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >\n<div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\\\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\\\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><\/p>\n<div class=\\\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\\\">\n<h1><span class=\\\"groen-stor\\\">Min k\u00e6reste vil flytte, fordi min datter har det sv\u00e6rt<\/span><\/h1>\n<p><span class=\\\"groen-h3\\\">Emils datter har det sv\u00e6rt. Det s\u00e6tter sit pr\u00e6g p\u00e5 den sammenbragte familie. Hvad g\u00f8r han nu hvor k\u00e6resten vil flytte og sommerferien st\u00e5r for d\u00f8ren?<\/span><\/p>\n<p># L\u00c6S EMILS BREV:<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-0-0-1\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"1\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >\n<div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\\\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\\\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><\/p>\n<div class=\\\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\\\">\n<p>Hej Stine<\/p>\n<p>Min k\u00e6reste og jeg har boet sammen i 2,5 \u00e5r, og vi elsker hinanden afsindig h\u00f8jt.<\/p>\n<p>Vi har begge to b\u00f8rn fra tidligere forhold.<\/p>\n<p>Jeg har en pige p\u00e5 14 og en dreng p\u00e5 12 og min k\u00e6reste har to drenge p\u00e5 henholdsvis 14 og 10.<\/p>\n<p>For godt et \u00e5r siden begynder min pige at f\u00e5 det rigtig sv\u00e6rt. Hun tyr til selvskade i form af cutting. Hun har slemme ar p\u00e5 begge arme og p\u00e5 sine ben, og de kan virke meget voldsomme.<\/p>\n<p>Min ekskone og jeg har k\u00e6mpet med at f\u00e5 hj\u00e6lp til vores datter, og den hj\u00e6lp er kommer for halvanden m\u00e5ned siden.<\/p>\n<p>Vores datter har f\u00e5et en depressionsdiagnose.<\/p>\n<p>I den forbindelse har hun f\u00e5et b\u00e5de quetiapin til at sove p\u00e5 og sertralin mod depressionen.<\/p>\n<p>Sertralinen har hun i skrivende stund f\u00e5et i tre uger, og jeg har en pige der tilsyneladende er begyndt at f\u00e5 det bedre.<\/p>\n<p>Samv\u00e6rsordningen er for min datters vedkommende 9\/5 til sin mors fav\u00f8r, s\u00e5 hun kun er sammen med drengene fra fredag til s\u00f8ndag.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-0-0-2\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-image widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"2\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >[siteorigin_widget class=\\&#8221;SiteOrigin_Widget_Image_Widget\\&#8221;]<input type=\\\"hidden\\\" value=\\\"{&quot;instance&quot;:{&quot;image&quot;:32713,&quot;image_fallback&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;full&quot;,&quot;size_width&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;size_height&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;align&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;title_align&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;title_position&quot;:&quot;hidden&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;Par omfavner hinanden&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bound&quot;:true,&quot;rel&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;_sow_form_id&quot;:&quot;106287804461b5ad9326533528755785&quot;,&quot;_sow_form_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1656167886761&quot;,&quot;siteorigin&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;extended_widget_opts&quot;:{&quot;id_base&quot;:&quot;c111&quot;,&quot;visibility&quot;:{&quot;options&quot;:&quot;hide&quot;},&quot;devices&quot;:{&quot;options&quot;:&quot;hide&quot;},&quot;alignment&quot;:{&quot;desktop&quot;:&quot;default&quot;},&quot;styling&quot;:[],&quot;class&quot;:[]},&quot;link_title&quot;:false,&quot;new_window&quot;:false,&quot;full_width&quot;:false,&quot;so_sidebar_emulator_id&quot;:&quot;sow-image-3270510002&quot;,&quot;option_name&quot;:&quot;widget_sow-image&quot;},&quot;args&quot;:{&quot;before_widget&quot;:&quot;&lt;div id=\\\\&quot;panel-32705-0-0-2\\\\&quot; class=\\\\&quot;so-panel widget widget_sow-image widgetopts-SO\\\\&quot; data-index=\\\\&quot;2\\\\&quot; data-style=\\\\&quot;{&amp;quot;background_image_attachment&amp;quot;:false,&amp;quot;background_display&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;tile&amp;quot;}\\\\&quot; &gt;&quot;,&quot;after_widget&quot;:&quot;&lt;\\\\\/div&gt;&quot;,&quot;before_title&quot;:&quot;&lt;h3 class=\\\\&quot;widget-title\\\\&quot;&gt;&quot;,&quot;after_title&quot;:&quot;&lt;\\\\\/h3&gt;&quot;,&quot;widget_id&quot;:&quot;widget-0-0-2&quot;}}\\\" \/>[\/siteorigin_widget]<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-0-0-3\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-last-child widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"3\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >\n<div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\\\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\\\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><\/p>\n<div class=\\\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\\\">\n<h2><span class=\\\"groen-mellem\\\">Min k\u00e6restes s\u00f8n er utryg<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Min k\u00e6restes \u00e6ldste dreng har taget skarpt afstand fra min datter, og v\u00e6lge ofte at tage v\u00e6k hjemmefra n\u00e5r hun er hos os.<\/p>\n<p>Indtil hun fik det skidt har min datter og drengen haft en fin relation. Men det er lang tid siden de har haft noget som helst sammen.<\/p>\n<p>Min k\u00e6restes mindste er meget utryg n\u00e5r min datter er hos os, og han vil helst v\u00e6re hos sin far, fremfor at v\u00e6re hos os n\u00e5r min datter er her.<\/p>\n<p>Der har v\u00e6ret nogle episoder hvor min datter har cuttet mens de alle har v\u00e6ret her, og jeg er i den forbindelse v\u00e6ret n\u00f8dt til at k\u00f8re til PAM og skadestuen nogle gange.<\/p>\n<p>I de situationer har min k\u00e6reste taget sig af min dreng sammen med sine egne, og det har v\u00e6ret nogle meget voldsomme oplevelser for alle de tre drenge.<\/p>\n<p>Vores parforhold er tyndslidt, og min k\u00e6reste giver udtryk for ikke at kunne v\u00e6re i det mere.<\/p>\n<p>Min datter giver udtryk for, gerne at ville v\u00e6re noget mere hos os, men indtil videre har hun ikke v\u00e6ret det, hovedsageligt af hensyn til min k\u00e6restes drenge.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\\\"groen-mellem\\\">Sommerferien er i fare <\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Vi st\u00e5r overfor en sommerferie, hvor vi p\u00e5 ingen m\u00e5de har nogen garantier for, om hun har f\u00e5et det s\u00e5 meget bedre, at hun kan lade v\u00e6re med at skabe en situation, hvor alle bliver bange og utrygge.<\/p>\n<p>Det skal hertil siges, at vi skal alle seks til Bornholm, og bor p\u00e5 Sj\u00e6lland.<\/p>\n<p>Derudover har min k\u00e6reste proklameret, at hun ikke magter mere og hun ikke ser anden udvej, end at vi flytter fra hinanden.<\/p>\n<p>Jeg derimod har en tyrkertro p\u00e5, at vi kan overkomme den her krise, og at min datter nok skal f\u00e5 det bedre.<\/p>\n<p>Min k\u00e6reste er n\u00e5et dertil, hvor hun ikke tror hun kan vente p\u00e5 det&#8230; Og hvad ogs\u00e5 med sommerferien?<\/p>\n<p>Jeg er top frustreret over situationen, og jeg vil p\u00e5 ingen m\u00e5de flytte fra min k\u00e6reste.<\/p>\n<p>Naturligvis skal min k\u00e6reste passe p\u00e5 sine drenge for enhver pris, men min datter er jo ved at f\u00e5 det bedre!<\/p>\n<p>Jeg har virkelig brug for nogle gode r\u00e5d og svar p\u00e5, hvad pokker man g\u00f8r i s\u00e5dan en situation!<\/p>\n<p>Mvh Emil<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"pgc-32705-0-1\\\"  class=\\\"panel-grid-cell\\\"  data-weight=\\\"0.33333333333333\\\" >\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-0-1-0\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-first-child panel-last-child extendedwopts-hide extendedwopts-tablet extendedwopts-mobile widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"4\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >\n<div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\\\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\\\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><\/p>\n<div class=\\\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\\\">\n\t[spacer height=\\&#8221;20px\\&#8221;][embed_popupally_pro popup_id=\\&#8221;4\\&#8221;][spacer height=\\&#8221;20px\\&#8221;]<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"pg-32705-1\\\"  class=\\\"panel-grid panel-has-style\\\"  data-style=\\\"{&quot;background&quot;:&quot;#cee2d3&quot;,&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;,&quot;cell_alignment&quot;:&quot;flex-start&quot;}\\\"  data-ratio=\\\"1\\\"  data-ratio-direction=\\\"right\\\" >\n<div style=\\\"background-color: #cee2d3; \\\" class=\\\"panel-row-style panel-row-style-for-32705-1\\\" >\n<div id=\\\"pgc-32705-1-0\\\"  class=\\\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-empty\\\"  data-weight=\\\"0.10385656292287\\\" ><\/div>\n<div id=\\\"pgc-32705-1-1\\\"  class=\\\"panel-grid-cell\\\"  data-weight=\\\"0.43267929634641\\\" >\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-1-1-0\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-first-child widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"5\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >\n<div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\\\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\\\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><\/p>\n<div class=\\\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\\\">\n\t [su_spacer]<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-1-1-1\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-last-child widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"6\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >\n<div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\\\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\\\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><\/p>\n<div class=\\\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\\\">\n<p style=\\\"text-align: center;\\\"><span class=\\\"groen-h3\\\">Skriv dit eget sp\u00f8rgsm\u00e5l til brevkassen:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\\\"text-align: center;\\\"><span class=\\\"groen-h3\\\">brevkasse@stinezink.dk<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"pgc-32705-1-2\\\"  class=\\\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-mobile-last\\\"  data-weight=\\\"0.39208389715832\\\" >\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-1-2-0\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-image panel-first-child panel-last-child widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"7\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >[siteorigin_widget class=\\&#8221;SiteOrigin_Widget_Image_Widget\\&#8221;]<input type=\\\"hidden\\\" value=\\\"{&quot;instance&quot;:{&quot;image&quot;:6911,&quot;image_fallback&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;medium&quot;,&quot;align&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;title_align&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;title_position&quot;:&quot;hidden&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bound&quot;:true,&quot;_sow_form_id&quot;:&quot;16871127605b84420d4b662044531902&quot;,&quot;_sow_form_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1535394380983&quot;,&quot;siteorigin&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;extended_widget_opts&quot;:{&quot;id_base&quot;:&quot;c153&quot;,&quot;visibility&quot;:{&quot;options&quot;:&quot;hide&quot;},&quot;devices&quot;:{&quot;options&quot;:&quot;hide&quot;},&quot;alignment&quot;:{&quot;desktop&quot;:&quot;default&quot;},&quot;class&quot;:[]},&quot;new_window&quot;:false,&quot;full_width&quot;:false,&quot;so_sidebar_emulator_id&quot;:&quot;sow-image-3270510007&quot;,&quot;option_name&quot;:&quot;widget_sow-image&quot;},&quot;args&quot;:{&quot;before_widget&quot;:&quot;&lt;div id=\\\\&quot;panel-32705-1-2-0\\\\&quot; class=\\\\&quot;so-panel widget widget_sow-image panel-first-child panel-last-child widgetopts-SO\\\\&quot; data-index=\\\\&quot;7\\\\&quot; data-style=\\\\&quot;{&amp;quot;background_image_attachment&amp;quot;:false,&amp;quot;background_display&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;tile&amp;quot;}\\\\&quot; &gt;&quot;,&quot;after_widget&quot;:&quot;&lt;\\\\\/div&gt;&quot;,&quot;before_title&quot;:&quot;&lt;h3 class=\\\\&quot;widget-title\\\\&quot;&gt;&quot;,&quot;after_title&quot;:&quot;&lt;\\\\\/h3&gt;&quot;,&quot;widget_id&quot;:&quot;widget-1-2-0&quot;}}\\\" \/>[\/siteorigin_widget]<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"pgc-32705-1-3\\\"  class=\\\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-empty\\\"  data-weight=\\\"0.071380243572395\\\" ><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"pg-32705-2\\\"  class=\\\"panel-grid panel-no-style\\\"  data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;,&quot;cell_alignment&quot;:&quot;flex-start&quot;}\\\" >\n<div id=\\\"pgc-32705-2-0\\\"  class=\\\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-mobile-last\\\"  data-weight=\\\"0.66666666666667\\\" >\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-2-0-0\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-first-child widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"8\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >\n<div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\\\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\\\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><\/p>\n<div class=\\\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\\\">\n\t# L\u00c6S MIT SVAR HER:<\/p>\n<p>K\u00e6re Emil<\/p>\n<p>Tak for dit sp\u00f8rgsm\u00e5l.<\/p>\n<p>Hvor kan jeg m\u00e6rke, hvordan I alle er i klemme her. Jeg forst\u00e5r s\u00f8rme godt, du er frustreret og s\u00f8ger svar og l\u00f8sninger.<\/p>\n<p>I mit svar til dig vil jeg udelukkende forholde mig til det at v\u00e6re sammenbragt familie. Jeg g\u00e5r s\u00e5ledes ikke ind i problematikker omkring cutting og depression. Den del l\u00e6ser jeg, I allerede f\u00e5r hj\u00e6lp til. <\/p>\n<p>Desv\u00e6rre kan jeg ikke give dig den magiske opskrift p\u00e5, hvordan du\/I samler de l\u00f8ser ender. Men jeg kan highlighte nogle ting i det, du skriver.<\/p>\n<p>Allerf\u00f8rst: Det gl\u00e6der mig at l\u00e6se, at du og din ekskone har et godt samarbejde omkring din datters situation. <\/p>\n<p>Et godt for\u00e6ldresamarbejde omkring et barn, der har det sv\u00e6rt er guld v\u00e6rd. Og er desv\u00e6rre ingen selvf\u00f8lgelighed, n\u00e5r for\u00e6ldrene er skilt. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-2-0-1\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-image widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"9\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >[siteorigin_widget class=\\&#8221;SiteOrigin_Widget_Image_Widget\\&#8221;]<input type=\\\"hidden\\\" value=\\\"{&quot;instance&quot;:{&quot;image&quot;:32715,&quot;image_fallback&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;full&quot;,&quot;size_width&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;size_height&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;align&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;title_align&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;title_position&quot;:&quot;hidden&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;To voksne og stor datter &quot;,&quot;url&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bound&quot;:true,&quot;rel&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;_sow_form_id&quot;:&quot;738322323626515aa17cac205962395&quot;,&quot;_sow_form_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1656167826698&quot;,&quot;siteorigin&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;extended_widget_opts&quot;:{&quot;id_base&quot;:&quot;c139&quot;,&quot;visibility&quot;:{&quot;options&quot;:&quot;hide&quot;},&quot;devices&quot;:{&quot;options&quot;:&quot;hide&quot;},&quot;alignment&quot;:{&quot;desktop&quot;:&quot;default&quot;},&quot;styling&quot;:[],&quot;class&quot;:[]},&quot;link_title&quot;:false,&quot;new_window&quot;:false,&quot;full_width&quot;:false,&quot;so_sidebar_emulator_id&quot;:&quot;sow-image-3270510009&quot;,&quot;option_name&quot;:&quot;widget_sow-image&quot;},&quot;args&quot;:{&quot;before_widget&quot;:&quot;&lt;div id=\\\\&quot;panel-32705-2-0-1\\\\&quot; class=\\\\&quot;so-panel widget widget_sow-image widgetopts-SO\\\\&quot; data-index=\\\\&quot;9\\\\&quot; data-style=\\\\&quot;{&amp;quot;background_image_attachment&amp;quot;:false,&amp;quot;background_display&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;tile&amp;quot;}\\\\&quot; &gt;&quot;,&quot;after_widget&quot;:&quot;&lt;\\\\\/div&gt;&quot;,&quot;before_title&quot;:&quot;&lt;h3 class=\\\\&quot;widget-title\\\\&quot;&gt;&quot;,&quot;after_title&quot;:&quot;&lt;\\\\\/h3&gt;&quot;,&quot;widget_id&quot;:&quot;widget-2-0-1&quot;}}\\\" \/>[\/siteorigin_widget]<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-2-0-2\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"10\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >\n<div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\\\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\\\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><\/p>\n<div class=\\\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\\\">\n<h2><span class=\\\"groen-mellem\\\">Forskr\u00e6kkelser og bekymringer <\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Du fort\u00e6ller, at din datter er p\u00e5 medicin og i l\u00f8bet af de seneste tre uger har f\u00e5et det bedre. Det sk\u00f8nt! Jeg h\u00e5ber for jer alle, at den gode udvikling forts\u00e6tter.<\/p>\n<p>Desv\u00e6rre l\u00f8ser hendes bedring ikke ogs\u00e5 alt det, der har ramt jeres sammenbragte familie. I har mistet pusten og har brug for at komme jer ovenp\u00e5 alle forskr\u00e6kkelser og bekymringer. Bekymringer, som jo desv\u00e6rre ikke er et overst\u00e5et kapitel.<\/p>\n<p>Sidel\u00f8bende med alt det, der er sket, er der kommet en afstand ind i jeres sammenbragte familie.<\/p>\n<p>Din k\u00e6restes drenge tr\u00e6kker sig. Det tidligere gode forhold mellem jeres b\u00f8rn er nu blevet ansp\u00e6ndt.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\\\"groen-mellem\\\">Flytte hver til sit?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Du fort\u00e6ller, at din k\u00e6reste mener, I skal flytte hver til sit.<\/p>\n<p>Jeg kan h\u00f8re, du f\u00f8ler dig afvist og frustreret.<\/p>\n<p>Det forst\u00e5r jeg virkelig godt.<\/p>\n<p>Hvis din k\u00e6reste har besluttet sig for, at I skal flytte fra hinanden, m\u00e5 du respektere det (og hende). <\/p>\n<p>At fors\u00f8ge at overtale hende kommer der ikke noget godt ud af. Det kan f\u00e5 hende til at tr\u00e6kke sig fra dig, fordi hun oplever, du ikke lytter til hendes behov. <\/p>\n<p>Jeg er sikker p\u00e5, det ikke er en nem beslutning for hende at tr\u00e6ffe.<\/p>\n<p>At flytte fra hinanden kan desuden v\u00e6re en k\u00e6rlig handling. <\/p>\n<p>Fordi I g\u00f8r det for at passe p\u00e5 jeres b\u00f8rn, jeres sammenbragte familie, parforholdet og jer selv.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00e5ske kan du se hendes beslutning i det lys?<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-2-0-3\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-image widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"11\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >[siteorigin_widget class=\\&#8221;SiteOrigin_Widget_Image_Widget\\&#8221;]<input type=\\\"hidden\\\" value=\\\"{&quot;instance&quot;:{&quot;image&quot;:32714,&quot;image_fallback&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;full&quot;,&quot;size_width&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;size_height&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;align&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;title_align&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;title_position&quot;:&quot;hidden&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;teenagers ligger i sofaen &quot;,&quot;url&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bound&quot;:true,&quot;rel&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;_sow_form_id&quot;:&quot;200178318262b719cda83cf957497371&quot;,&quot;_sow_form_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1656167851800&quot;,&quot;siteorigin&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;extended_widget_opts&quot;:{&quot;id_base&quot;:&quot;c147&quot;,&quot;visibility&quot;:{&quot;options&quot;:&quot;hide&quot;},&quot;devices&quot;:{&quot;options&quot;:&quot;hide&quot;},&quot;alignment&quot;:{&quot;desktop&quot;:&quot;default&quot;},&quot;styling&quot;:[],&quot;class&quot;:[]},&quot;link_title&quot;:false,&quot;new_window&quot;:false,&quot;full_width&quot;:false,&quot;so_sidebar_emulator_id&quot;:&quot;sow-image-3270510011&quot;,&quot;option_name&quot;:&quot;widget_sow-image&quot;},&quot;args&quot;:{&quot;before_widget&quot;:&quot;&lt;div id=\\\\&quot;panel-32705-2-0-3\\\\&quot; class=\\\\&quot;so-panel widget widget_sow-image widgetopts-SO\\\\&quot; data-index=\\\\&quot;11\\\\&quot; data-style=\\\\&quot;{&amp;quot;background_image_attachment&amp;quot;:false,&amp;quot;background_display&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;tile&amp;quot;}\\\\&quot; &gt;&quot;,&quot;after_widget&quot;:&quot;&lt;\\\\\/div&gt;&quot;,&quot;before_title&quot;:&quot;&lt;h3 class=\\\\&quot;widget-title\\\\&quot;&gt;&quot;,&quot;after_title&quot;:&quot;&lt;\\\\\/h3&gt;&quot;,&quot;widget_id&quot;:&quot;widget-2-0-3&quot;}}\\\" \/>[\/siteorigin_widget]<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-2-0-4\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"12\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >\n<div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\\\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\\\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><\/p>\n<div class=\\\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\\\">\n<h2><span class=\\\"groen-mellem\\\">Ansvar for b\u00f8rnene<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Du skriver, at du er med p\u00e5, din k\u00e6reste skal passe p\u00e5 sine b\u00f8rn for enhver pris. Jeg vil k\u00e6rligt minde dig om, at du har samme ansvar for dine b\u00f8rn.<\/p>\n<p>Det er et urart klima for alle, n\u00e5r et barn har det s\u00e5 sv\u00e6rt.<\/p>\n<p>For din k\u00e6restes drenge betyder det, at de kan f\u00f8le sig rodl\u00f8se i deres mors hjem. Dette er is\u00e6r alvorligt, hvis det er deres prim\u00e6re hjem.<\/p>\n<p>Her har din k\u00e6reste et ansvar for at passe p\u00e5 sine b\u00f8rn og skabe et rart klima.<\/p>\n<p>Lad os ogs\u00e5 se p\u00e5, hvad du kan g\u00f8re for dine b\u00f8rn lige nu.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\\\"groen-mellem\\\">Hvor er din s\u00f8ns plads i familien?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Du fort\u00e6ller ikke, hvordan din s\u00f8n har det eller hvor meget han er hos dig.<\/p>\n<p>Derfor spekulerer jeg p\u00e5, om han kan v\u00e6re lidt glemt?<\/p>\n<p>M\u00e5ske g\u00f8r han ikke s\u00e5 meget opm\u00e6rksom p\u00e5 sig selv. B\u00f8rn kan ofte m\u00e6rke, hvis de voksne savner overskud.<\/p>\n<p>Nogle b\u00f8rn reagerer ved at afgive plads. Plads som de har krav p\u00e5 at f\u00e5. Her er det de voksnes ansvar at skabe den plads til dem.<\/p>\n<p>Jeg siger ikke dette, for at give dig d\u00e5rlig samvittighed.<\/p>\n<p>I st\u00e5r i en vanskelig situation, og jeg er ikke i tvivl om, at du og I g\u00f8r det s\u00e5 godt som muligt.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\\\"groen-mellem\\\">Hvad har din datter brug for?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Du skriver, hun kun er sammen med din k\u00e6restes drenge fredag til s\u00f8ndag.<\/p>\n<p>Det er en v\u00e6sentlig del af den tid, hun har hos dig, da det pr\u00e6cis er de dage, hun har fri fra skole.<\/p>\n<p>Kan hun have brug for lidt alenetid med dig (og sin bror), hvor I laver noget rart sammen?<\/p>\n<p>Hun giver udtryk for at ville v\u00e6re mere hos dig.<\/p>\n<p>Jeg t\u00e6nker ikke, det handler om antallet af dage men om, at hun har brug for mere n\u00e6rv\u00e6r og alenetid med sin far. Pr\u00f8v at skrue op for den del, inden I \u00e6ndrer i hendes samv\u00e6rsordning.<\/p>\n<p>Som det er nu har hun en fast base hos sin mor, og det mener jeg er vigtigt at bevare.<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-2-0-5\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-image widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"13\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >[siteorigin_widget class=\\&#8221;SiteOrigin_Widget_Image_Widget\\&#8221;]<input type=\\\"hidden\\\" value=\\\"{&quot;instance&quot;:{&quot;image&quot;:32712,&quot;image_fallback&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;full&quot;,&quot;size_width&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;size_height&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;align&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;title_align&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;title_position&quot;:&quot;hidden&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;To glade drenge&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;bound&quot;:true,&quot;rel&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;_sow_form_id&quot;:&quot;199193571062651ae404b76431150754&quot;,&quot;_sow_form_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1656167918232&quot;,&quot;siteorigin&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;extended_widget_opts&quot;:{&quot;id_base&quot;:&quot;c155&quot;,&quot;visibility&quot;:{&quot;options&quot;:&quot;hide&quot;},&quot;devices&quot;:{&quot;options&quot;:&quot;hide&quot;},&quot;alignment&quot;:{&quot;desktop&quot;:&quot;default&quot;},&quot;styling&quot;:[],&quot;class&quot;:[]},&quot;link_title&quot;:false,&quot;new_window&quot;:false,&quot;full_width&quot;:false,&quot;so_sidebar_emulator_id&quot;:&quot;sow-image-3270510013&quot;,&quot;option_name&quot;:&quot;widget_sow-image&quot;},&quot;args&quot;:{&quot;before_widget&quot;:&quot;&lt;div id=\\\\&quot;panel-32705-2-0-5\\\\&quot; class=\\\\&quot;so-panel widget widget_sow-image widgetopts-SO\\\\&quot; data-index=\\\\&quot;13\\\\&quot; data-style=\\\\&quot;{&amp;quot;background_image_attachment&amp;quot;:false,&amp;quot;background_display&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;tile&amp;quot;}\\\\&quot; &gt;&quot;,&quot;after_widget&quot;:&quot;&lt;\\\\\/div&gt;&quot;,&quot;before_title&quot;:&quot;&lt;h3 class=\\\\&quot;widget-title\\\\&quot;&gt;&quot;,&quot;after_title&quot;:&quot;&lt;\\\\\/h3&gt;&quot;,&quot;widget_id&quot;:&quot;widget-2-0-5&quot;}}\\\" \/>[\/siteorigin_widget]<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-2-0-6\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"14\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >\n<div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\\\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\\\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><\/p>\n<div class=\\\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\\\">\n<h2><span class=\\\"groen-mellem\\\">Hvad med sommerferien?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Og lad os s\u00e5 vende tilbage til sommerferien, som jo lige nu er det, der presser dig ekstra.<\/p>\n<p>Kunne det v\u00e6re en mulighed at du og din k\u00e6reste p\u00e5 skift har huset p\u00e5 Bornholm?<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e5 I planl\u00e6gger, at du er der med dine b\u00f8rn halvdelen af tiden, og hun er der den anden halvdel med sine b\u00f8rn? Evt. med en dags overlap i midten?<\/p>\n<p>Jeg er klar over, det \u00f8del\u00e6gger din og din k\u00e6restes mulighed for at holde ferie sammen i \u00e5r (med streg under i \u00e5r). Men kunne det give jer noget ogs\u00e5?<\/p>\n<p>Jeg forestiller mig, at du vil kunne tilbyde dine b\u00f8rn noget ro, hvor de ikke skal forholde sig til de andre b\u00f8rn, som din datter lige nu har et sk\u00e6vt forhold til.<\/p>\n<p>Dine b\u00f8rn kan f\u00e5 noget alenetid som s\u00f8skende sammen med dig. Det forestiller jeg mig, de har brug for.<\/p>\n<p>Samtidig kan din k\u00e6reste f\u00e5 et pusterum og kan styrke b\u00e5ndet til sine s\u00f8nner. Hun sidder i en klemme, hvor hun kan f\u00f8le, at hun skal v\u00e6lge. Mellem dig og dine b\u00f8rn p\u00e5 den ene side, og sine egne b\u00f8rn p\u00e5 den anden. Det er selvsagt uholdbart.<\/p>\n<p>Emil, jeg \u00f8nsker for jer alle at I kommer godt igennem denne turbulente tid.<\/p>\n<p>God sommer!<\/p>\n<p>K\u00e6rlig hilsen<br \/>\nStine\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-2-0-7\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-editor panel-last-child widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"15\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >\n<div\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\tclass=\\\"so-widget-sow-editor so-widget-sow-editor-base\\\"\n\t\t\t\n\t\t><\/p>\n<div class=\\\"siteorigin-widget-tinymce textwidget\\\">\n<h2><span class=\\\"groen-mellem\\\">Andre har ogs\u00e5 l\u00e6st:<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"pgc-32705-2-1\\\"  class=\\\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-empty\\\"  data-weight=\\\"0.33333333333333\\\" ><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\\\"pg-32705-3\\\"  class=\\\"panel-grid panel-no-style\\\"  data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;,&quot;cell_alignment&quot;:&quot;flex-start&quot;}\\\"  data-ratio=\\\"1\\\"  data-ratio-direction=\\\"right\\\" >\n<div id=\\\"pgc-32705-3-0\\\"  class=\\\"panel-grid-cell\\\"  data-weight=\\\"0.33333333333333\\\" >\n<div id=\\\"panel-32705-3-0-0\\\" class=\\\"so-panel widget widget_sow-image panel-first-child widgetopts-SO\\\" data-index=\\\"16\\\" data-style=\\\"{&quot;background_image_attachment&quot;:false,&quot;background_display&quot;:&quot;tile&quot;}\\\" >[siteorigin_widget class=\\&#8221;SiteOrigin_Widget_Image_Widget\\&#8221;]<input type=\\\"hidden\\\" value=\\\"{&quot;instance&quot;:{&quot;image&quot;:32568,&quot;image_fallback&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;medium&quot;,&quot;size_width&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;size_height&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;align&quot;:&quot;center&quot;,&quot;title_align&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;title_position&quot;:&quot;hidden&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;Sl\u00e5r sig i hovedet med d\u00e5rlig samvittighed&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\\\/\\\\\/stinezink.dk\\\\\/daarlig-samvittighed\\\\\/&quot;,&quot;bound&quot;:true,&quot;rel&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;_sow_form_id&quot;:&quot;9115343075c8f466c4b0c4815092869&quot;,&quot;_sow_form_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1650795252058&quot;,&quot;siteorigin&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;extended_widget_opts&quot;:{&quot;id_base&quot;:&quot;c167&quot;,&quot;visibility&quot;:{&quot;options&quot;:&quot;hide&quot;},&quot;devices&quot;:{&quot;options&quot;:&quot;hide&quot;},&quot;alignment&quot;:{&quot;desktop&quot;:&quot;default&quot;},&quot;class&quot;:[]},&quot;link_title&quot;:false,&quot;new_window&quot;:false,&quot;full_width&quot;:false,&quot;so_sidebar_emulator_id&quot;:&quot;sow-image-3270510016&quot;,&quot;option_name&quot;:&quot;widget_sow-image&quot;},&quot;args&quot;:{&quot;before_widget&quot;:&quot;&lt;div id=\\\\&quot;panel-32705-3-0-0\\\\&quot; 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