{"id":32132,"date":"2022-01-02T15:18:33","date_gmt":"2022-01-02T14:18:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=32132"},"modified":"2022-01-02T15:18:33","modified_gmt":"2022-01-02T14:18:33","slug":"hvorfor-vil-han-ikke-vaere-min-kaereste","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=32132","title":{"rendered":"Hvorfor vil han ikke v\u00e6re min k\u00e6reste?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Hvorfor vil han ikke v\u00e6re min k\u00e6reste?<\/span><\/h1>\n

Maja er meget sammen med Thomas, der er 16 \u00e5r \u00e6ldre. Hun sover hos ham, har sin tandb\u00f8rste hos ham. Men han vil ikke v\u00e6re k\u00e6rester. Maja vil gerne vide, hvad hun g\u00f8r forkert.<\/span><\/p>\n

# L\u00c6S MAJAS SP\u00d8RGSM\u00c5L HER:<\/p>\n

Hej Stine<\/p>\n

Jeg har v\u00e6ret single i snart 10 m\u00e5neder. Jeg er endelig begyndt at date rigtigt igen, og jeg begyndte at date Thomas, som er 19 \u00e5r \u00e6ldre end jeg.<\/p>\n

Han gjorde det klart at han s\u00f8gte en k\u00e6reste, men han var glad for at l\u00e6re nye mennesker at kende. P\u00e5 vores femte aftale\/date, sp\u00f8rger jeg ind til om vi dater for det skal f\u00f8re til noget, eller om han kun \u00f8nsker at ses til hygge.<\/p>\n

Hans svar er han ikke syntes det skulle f\u00f8re til noget seri\u00f8st, men han n\u00f8d mit selskab og hyggede sig n\u00e5r vi var sammen.<\/p>\n

Jeg forst\u00e5r bare ikke hvad jeg g\u00f8r galt? Fordi vi sover sammen, min tandb\u00f8rste er hos ham, vi laver mad sammen og putter.<\/p>\n

Jeg forst\u00e5r ikke hvorfor han \u00f8nsker at ses hvis han ikke \u00f8nsker det skal f\u00f8re til noget seri\u00f8st?<\/p>\n

P\u00e5 forh\u00e5nd mange tak<\/p>\n

MVH Maja<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Skriv dit eget sp\u00f8rgsm\u00e5l til brevkassen:<\/span><\/p>\n

brevkasse@stinezink.dk<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Hej Maja<\/p>\n

Jeg har en god og en d\u00e5rlig nyhed til dig.<\/p>\n

Den gode f\u00f8rst: Du g\u00f8r INTET forkert!<\/p>\n

Den d\u00e5rlige nyhed er: Du er ikke \u00e6rlig overfor dig selv.<\/p>\n

Og hvad mener jeg s\u00e5 med det?<\/p>\n

Du giver mig ikke mange informationer, men jeg synes, det lyder som om du ikke lytter til, hvad Thomas siger.<\/p>\n

Derfor vil jeg sige det tydeligere: K\u00e6re Maja, han \u00f8nsker ikke at v\u00e6re i forhold med dig. Han vil gerne hygge, men ikke mere end det.<\/p>\n

Jeg g\u00e6tter p\u00e5, du efter 10 m\u00e5neder som single br\u00e6ndende \u00f8nsker at v\u00e6re i et forhold.<\/p>\n

Du skriver ikke hvor gammel du er. M\u00e5ske har du en alder, hvor du synes, du b\u00f8r finde en blivende partner?<\/p>\n

Fordi du \u00f8nsker b\u00f8rn?<\/p>\n

Eller blot fordi du \u00f8nsker, at kunne skrive et l\u00e6ngerevarende forhold p\u00e5 dit livs cv?<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Hvad vil DU gerne?<\/span><\/h2>\n

Jeg vil opfordre dig til at flytte din opm\u00e6rksomhed fra hvad Thomas gerne vil til, hvad DU gerne vil?<\/p>\n

Og med hvem, du kan f\u00e5, hvad du \u00f8nsker.<\/p>\n

Hvis du \u00f8nsker uforpligtende hygge kan du roligt forts\u00e6tte din relation.<\/p>\n

Men hvis du \u00f8nsker en k\u00e6reste, s\u00e5 m\u00e5 du l\u00f8srive dig fra Thomas. For s\u00e5 l\u00e6nge du hygger med ham, er du ikke tilg\u00e6ngelig for andre, der gerne vil opbygge det forhold med dig, som du (m\u00e5ske) dr\u00f8mmer om. <\/p>\n

Jeg synes, du skal overveje at f\u00e5 professionel hj\u00e6lp til at kigge p\u00e5, hvorfor du lader dig selv n\u00f8jes med hygge, hvis det er en k\u00e6reste, du \u00f8nsker dig.<\/p>\n

Ham du s\u00f8ger er helt sikkert derude. Men lige nu kan du ikke m\u00f8de ham, fordi dit fokus er p\u00e5 Thomas. <\/p>\n

Jeg \u00f8nsker dig alt det bedste!<\/p>\n

K\u00e6rlig hilsen<\/p>\n

Stine<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Bliv din egen bedste ven – samtaler med Stine<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Hvorfor vil han ikke v\u00e6re min k\u00e6reste? Maja er meget sammen med Thomas, der er 16 \u00e5r \u00e6ldre. Hun sover hos ham, har sin tandb\u00f8rste hos ham. Men han vil ikke v\u00e6re k\u00e6rester. Maja vil gerne vide, hvad hun g\u00f8r forkert. # L\u00c6S MAJAS SP\u00d8RGSM\u00c5L HER: Hej Stine Jeg har v\u00e6ret single i snart 10 …<\/p>\n

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