{"id":31086,"date":"2021-04-24T20:27:22","date_gmt":"2021-04-24T18:27:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=31086"},"modified":"2021-04-24T20:27:22","modified_gmt":"2021-04-24T18:27:22","slug":"kan-vi-bo-sammen-efter-skilsmissen","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=31086","title":{"rendered":"Kan vi bo sammen efter skilsmissen?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Kan vi bo sammen efter skilsmissen?<\/h1>\n

En kvinde sp\u00f8rger:<\/p>\n

K\u00e6re Stine<\/p>\n

Skal man n\u00f8dvendigvis bryde en nogenlunde velfungerende b\u00f8rnefamilie op, selvom mor og far ikke l\u00e6ngere er k\u00e6rester? <\/p>\n

Jeg er efterh\u00e5nden ret sikker p\u00e5, at jeg ikke kan f\u00e5 romantiske f\u00f8lelser for min mand igen, og det har v\u00e6ret s\u00e5dan en del \u00e5r. Vi har pr\u00f8vet parterapi, og selvom det har gjort noget godt for min forst\u00e5else af ham, s\u00e5 har det ikke \u00e6ndret mine f\u00f8lelser. <\/p>\n

Min mand siger, at han gerne vil os, men jeg tror mest, det er frygten for et brud, der taler. <\/p>\n

Derfor st\u00e5r jeg alene med beslutningen om, hvad der skal ske. Jeg er ikke direkte ulykkelig, men jeg trives ikke, og jeg er belastet af en masse, der foreg\u00e5r i hans familie, som jeg dr\u00f8mmer om at slippe ansvaret for. <\/p>\n

Samtidig er det ret voldsomt at skulle flytte fra hinanden, for s\u00e5 skal jeg ogs\u00e5 skilles fra mine b\u00f8rn, og det er ub\u00e6rligt at t\u00e6nke p\u00e5. Vores liv som familie er jo p\u00e5 mange m\u00e5der helt fint, og vi er nogenlunde gode venner i dagligdagen. <\/p>\n

Derfor s\u00f8ger jeg inspiration til en ny familieform, hvor vi stadig er en familie, og har samme adresse, men hvor der sker en form for \u00e6ndring, der s\u00e6tter os fri i relationen til hinanden og det ansvar, man har over for hinandens liv og familier. <\/p>\n

Bo p\u00e5 hver sin etage? Tage skiftevis ansvar for ugerne, hvor den anden s\u00e5 er mere l\u00f8st tilknyttet? Eller noget tredje? Hvad kender du af modeller og giver det overhovedet mening? Er det bare fordi, jeg b\u00e5de vil bl\u00e6se og have mel i munden? Vil det bare forvirre b\u00f8rnene mere end det vil samle? De er 4 og 7 \u00e5r. <\/p>\n

Der er ingen nye partnere inde i billedet, og det er heller ikke d\u00e9t, jeg s\u00f8ger eller l\u00e6nges efter. Ikke i overskuelig fremtid i hvert fald. <\/p>\n

Jeg h\u00e5ber, du har nogle tanker, du vil dele. <\/p>\n

Hilsner fra en mor <\/p>\n

Se videoen med mit svar til hende her:<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Kan vi bo sammen efter skilsmissen? En kvinde sp\u00f8rger: K\u00e6re Stine Skal man n\u00f8dvendigvis bryde en nogenlunde velfungerende b\u00f8rnefamilie op, selvom mor og far ikke l\u00e6ngere er k\u00e6rester? Jeg er efterh\u00e5nden ret sikker p\u00e5, at jeg ikke kan f\u00e5 romantiske f\u00f8lelser for min mand igen, og det har v\u00e6ret s\u00e5dan en del \u00e5r. Vi har …<\/p>\n

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