{"id":2375,"date":"2015-12-19T09:24:49","date_gmt":"2015-12-19T08:24:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=2375"},"modified":"2015-12-19T09:24:49","modified_gmt":"2015-12-19T08:24:49","slug":"hvordan-giver-du-gaver-i-skilsmissefamilien","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=2375","title":{"rendered":"Hvordan giver du gaver i skilsmissefamilien?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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S\u00e5dan giver du gaver i skilsmissefamilien<\/span><\/h1>\n

H\u00f8rer du til dem, der ikke skal v\u00e6re sammen med dine b\u00f8rn juleaften? Fordi de i \u00e5r skal v\u00e6re hos den anden for\u00e6lder? Har du sv\u00e6rt ved at beslutte, hvorn\u00e5r b\u00f8rnene skal have deres julegaver?<\/span><\/p>\n

Overvej om b\u00f8rnene skal have julegaverne med sig juleaften. Hvis b\u00f8rnene f\u00e5r alle gaver p\u00e5 dagen understreger du, at juleaften er den 24. december. Og at det er juleaften, man f\u00e5r julegaver.<\/span><\/p>\n

Og husk det nu: Barnets ting er barnets ting. Det g\u00e6lder ogs\u00e5 for julegaver. S\u00e5 hvis dit barn \u00f8nsker, at din gave skal v\u00e6re hos den anden for\u00e6lder \u2013 ja s\u00e5 er det helt op til barnet. S\u00e5 m\u00e5ske er der ting, du skal undlade at give, hvis du ikke \u00f8nsker, det havner i det andet hjem.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Mange b\u00f8rn i skilsmissefamilier f\u00e5r mange gaver. Og is\u00e6r sm\u00e5 b\u00f8rn kan have sv\u00e6rt ved at overskue mere end nogle f\u00e5 gaver ad gangen. Hvis du giver dem gaverne hjemme hos dig, spredes udpakningen over flere dage. M\u00e5ske vil nogen fra din familie gerne v\u00e6re med? De har m\u00e5ske ogs\u00e5 gaver til dine b\u00f8rn ligesom b\u00f8rnene har gaver til jer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Uanset hvor mange I er, kan I have nogle hyggelige timer omkring udpakning af julegaver.<\/span><\/p>\n

Jeg vil dog opfordre dig til ikke at tage hul p\u00e5 gaverne inden juleaften. Lad barnet f\u00e5 lov at t\u00e6lle ned til juleaften sammen med de andre b\u00f8rn i b\u00f8rnehave og skole. Lad denne dag v\u00e6re helt s\u00e6rlig og enest\u00e5ende. <\/span><\/p>\n

Det betyder ogs\u00e5, at n\u00e5r b\u00f8rnene atter er hjemme hos dig, og I skal pakke gaver ud, s\u00e5 er det uden julesange, dans om tr\u00e6et og andesteg. Det h\u00f8rer juleaften til.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e6ste \u00e5r er det din tur til at nyde juleaften med b\u00f8rnene.<\/span><\/p>\n

Samarbejde om julegaverne<\/span><\/h2>\n

M\u00e5ske er det muligt i jeres tilf\u00e6lde at samarbejde om gaver til b\u00f8rnene.<\/span><\/p>\n

At give f\u00e6lles gaver mener jeg er at str\u00e6kke samarbejdet for langt. Det er heller ikke sikkert, kommunikationen omkring gaven forl\u00f8ber uden problemer. Kan I enes om hvor meget, der skal gives for? Om hvad den bedste gave til barnet er? <\/span><\/p>\n

Og hvor skal nye k\u00e6rester komme ind i den gavetradition? Skal de give gave alene eller sammen med k\u00e6restens eks og dennes nye k\u00e6reste? Med en f\u00e6lles gave risikerer I at signalere et f\u00e6llesskab mellem far og mor, som ikke er mere.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u00e5ske har I lyst til at aftale et niveau for julegaverne, s\u00e5 julen ikke udvikler sig til en konkurrence om, hvem der giver de dyreste gaver. Det kan ogs\u00e5 v\u00e6re, I har lyst til at vide, hvad den anden giver for at undg\u00e5 barnet st\u00e5r med flere ens pakker.<\/span><\/p>\n

Og husk nu rummeligheden! Hvis din eks giver dine b\u00f8rn noget, du bestemt ikke bryder dig om, ja s\u00e5 er det bare \u00e6rgerligt. Det er ikke<\/strong> dit bord.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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S\u00e5dan giver du gaver i skilsmissefamilien H\u00f8rer du til dem, der ikke skal v\u00e6re sammen med dine b\u00f8rn juleaften? Fordi de i \u00e5r skal v\u00e6re hos den anden for\u00e6lder? Har du sv\u00e6rt ved at beslutte, hvorn\u00e5r b\u00f8rnene skal have deres julegaver? Overvej om b\u00f8rnene skal have julegaverne med sig juleaften. Hvis b\u00f8rnene f\u00e5r alle gaver …<\/p>\n

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