{"id":2145,"date":"2015-12-12T20:31:36","date_gmt":"2015-12-12T19:31:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=2145"},"modified":"2015-12-12T20:31:36","modified_gmt":"2015-12-12T19:31:36","slug":"men-vi-plejer-jo","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=2145","title":{"rendered":"Men vi plejer jo\u2026?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Men vi plejer jo\u2026?<\/span><\/h1>\n

Julen er en s\u00e6rlig h\u00f8jtid i mange familier. Den er forbundet med en r\u00e6kke traditioner. Derfor kan vi lide at g\u00f8re \u201dsom vi plejer\u201d. <\/p>\n

Det kan v\u00e6re risengr\u00f8d den 23. december eller at f\u00e6lde juletr\u00e6 1. december. Ogs\u00e5 julefrokosten anden juledag hos tante Oda indg\u00e5r i de vante traditioner.<\/span><\/p>\n

Men hvordan er det i skilsmissefamilien? Er det en god id\u00e9, at b\u00f8rnene fortsat deltager i det hele? <\/p>\n

Mange b\u00f8rn har en travl hverdag og har brug for at koble af i ferien. Hvis de konstant skal hives ud af julefreden for at deltage i diverse arrangementer hos skiftevis far og mor, s\u00e5 kommer de ikke ned i gear.<\/span><\/p>\n

Det kan v\u00e6re tid til at genoverveje hvilke traditioner, du skal holde fast i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Jeg er fortaler for at dele juleferien midt i (den er heldigvis lang). Den f\u00f8rste halvdel holdes med den ene for\u00e6lder \u2013 den anden halvdel hos den anden (og s\u00e5 modsat n\u00e6ste \u00e5r). <\/p>\n

P\u00e5 den m\u00e5de kan b\u00f8rnene f\u00e5 sammenh\u00e6ngende tid. De slipper ogs\u00e5 for at have mange skift mellem de to kulturer, der er i de to hjem. P\u00e5 den m\u00e5de f\u00e5r de mulighed for at falde til ro begge steder.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hvad vil min mor sige?<\/span><\/h2>\n

At blive skilt har en r\u00e6kke konsekvenser. <\/p>\n

Juledage uden b\u00f8rnene er en af de ting, der f\u00f8lger med \u2013 ogs\u00e5 for bedstefor\u00e6ldre og \u00f8vrig familie. <\/p>\n

Det kan sj\u00e6ldent undg\u00e5s, at der er \u00e9n, der f\u00f8ler sig forbig\u00e5et. Det betyder at der kan v\u00e6re nogen, der f\u00f8ler sig s\u00e5ret og skuffet over, at netop JEG ikke kan se b\u00f8rnene i \u00e5r. <\/p>\n

Hav forst\u00e5else for, at det kan v\u00e6re sv\u00e6rt at forst\u00e5, det ikke bare lige kan lade sig g\u00f8re at opretholde traditionerne. <\/span><\/p>\n

Det moderne familieliv er en kabale, som kan v\u00e6re svar at f\u00e5 til at g\u00e5 op. Selvf\u00f8lgelig er det ikke nemmere i skilsmissefamilien.<\/span><\/p>\n

Som for\u00e6lder er det din opgave at holde fast i det, som er bedst for b\u00f8rnene. <\/p>\n

Det kan v\u00e6re sv\u00e6rt. M\u00e5ske har du d\u00e5rlig samvittighed over at m\u00e5tte skuffe dine for\u00e6ldre eller andre, der jo holder s\u00e5 meget af b\u00f8rnene og gerne vil se dem i h\u00f8jtiden.<\/span><\/p>\n

DU er for\u00e6lderen, og det er dig, der ved, hvad der er bedst for dine b\u00f8rn. Det er dit job at holde fast i, hvad du mener er rigtigt. Derfor beh\u00f8ver du ikke deltage i en diskussion om ret og rimeligt. Du kan n\u00f8jes med at st\u00e5 fast p\u00e5, at du som altid g\u00f8r det, du mener, er bedst for b\u00f8rnene.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Men vi plejer jo\u2026? Julen er en s\u00e6rlig h\u00f8jtid i mange familier. Den er forbundet med en r\u00e6kke traditioner. Derfor kan vi lide at g\u00f8re \u201dsom vi plejer\u201d. Det kan v\u00e6re risengr\u00f8d den 23. december eller at f\u00e6lde juletr\u00e6 1. december. Ogs\u00e5 julefrokosten anden juledag hos tante Oda indg\u00e5r i de vante traditioner. Men hvordan …<\/p>\n

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