{"id":1670,"date":"2015-08-15T19:00:19","date_gmt":"2015-08-15T19:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=1670"},"modified":"2015-08-15T19:00:19","modified_gmt":"2015-08-15T19:00:19","slug":"nogle-gange-hader-jeg-at-vaere-enlig-mor","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/astra.stinezink.dk\/?page_id=1670","title":{"rendered":"Nogle gange hader jeg at v\u00e6re enlig mor"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nogle gange hader jeg at v\u00e6re enlig mor<\/span><\/h1>\n

Skole\u00e5ret er g\u00e5et i gang. <\/span><\/p>\n

Seks ugers frav\u00e6r af daglig sm\u00f8ring af madpakker er slut. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nu skal jeg igen balancere mellem skole, fritidsaktiviteter, legeaftaler og arbejde.<\/span><\/p>\n

Og det er lige nu, jeg godt kan synes, det er rigtig godt tr\u00e6ls at v\u00e6re enlig for\u00e6lder.<\/span><\/p>\n

Normalt styrer jeg hverdagen med venstre h\u00e5nd. <\/span><\/p>\n

Som selvst\u00e6ndig kan jeg altid styre uden om l\u00e6gebes\u00f8g og den slags. <\/span><\/p>\n

Men efter en ferie, hvor vi har v\u00e6ret nede i tempo, rammer hverdagen mig som en mur. <\/span><\/p>\n

For hvordan er det nu lige, jeg plejer at f\u00e5 alt til at g\u00e5 op i en h\u00f8jere enhed?<\/span><\/p>\n

Det er altid mig\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

En familie med kun \u00e9n voksen betyder, at der ikke er nogen at overlade halvdelen af hente\/bringe-pligterne til. <\/span><\/p>\n

Der er ingen at overlade indk\u00f8b, madlavning, vasket\u00f8j eller l\u00e6gebes\u00f8g til. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ikke en anden, der lige k\u00f8rer bilen p\u00e5 v\u00e6rksted eller f\u00e5r k\u00f8bt gummist\u00f8vler med den yngste. <\/span><\/p>\n

Det er mig. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ikke bare hver gang – men hver eneste gang.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fordelen ved det er, at mine b\u00f8rn d\u00f8d-og-pine skal hj\u00e6lpe til. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hvis jeg skal klare alting, bliver jeg jo aldrig f\u00e6rdig. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mine b\u00f8rn skal d\u00e6kke og rydde bord, deltage i sm\u00f8ring af madpakker, d\u00e6kke morgenbord, selv st\u00e5 for gymnastikt\u00f8j, biblioteksb\u00f8ger og den slags.<\/span><\/p>\n

G\u00f8r de ikke det, s\u00e5 er der ikke tid til bare at v\u00e6re sammen. <\/span><\/p>\n

For s\u00e5 har jeg brugt dagens sidste kr\u00e6fter p\u00e5 at ordne noget praktisk.<\/span><\/p>\n

En plads i familien<\/span><\/h2>\n

Selvhjulpen. <\/span><\/p>\n

Det er et begreb jeg som enlig for\u00e6lder holder meget af. <\/span><\/p>\n

Begrebet dulmer den d\u00e5rlige samvittighed over ikke bare at lade b\u00f8rnene flade ud efter en lang skoledag. <\/span><\/p>\n

Det retf\u00e6rdigg\u00f8r, at jeg pisker dem op fra sofaen for at g\u00f8re noget, som det i mit eget barndomshjem var de voksne, der tog sig af (men ret skal v\u00e6re ret: Der var to voksne og \u00e9t barn).<\/span><\/p>\n

Jeg tror, det er sundt for b\u00f8rn at have en plads i familien. <\/span><\/p>\n

At m\u00e6rke at der er brug for det, de yder. Ogs\u00e5 selvom de ikke altid gider, og jeg m\u00e5 bruge energi p\u00e5 at f\u00e5 dem i gang. <\/span><\/p>\n

Jeg tror p\u00e5, det betaler sig p\u00e5 l\u00e6ngere sigt at s\u00e6tte dem i gang og g\u00f8re dem, ja netop: Selvhjulpne.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hjemme hos os synes vi alle tre, at ferien var for kort. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vi n\u00f8d det langsomme tempo og at v\u00e6re t\u00e6t sammen i l\u00e6ngere tid. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nu skal vi tilbage til den der med at \\”holde af hverdagen\\”. <\/span><\/p>\n

Og det skal nok lykkes. <\/span><\/p>\n

Det plejer det jo.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0Klik her og f\u00e5 5 tips til at komme godt igennem skilsmissen<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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Nogle gange hader jeg at v\u00e6re enlig mor Skole\u00e5ret er g\u00e5et i gang. Seks ugers frav\u00e6r af daglig sm\u00f8ring af madpakker er slut. Nu skal jeg igen balancere mellem skole, fritidsaktiviteter, legeaftaler og arbejde. Og det er lige nu, jeg godt kan synes, det er rigtig godt tr\u00e6ls at v\u00e6re enlig for\u00e6lder. Normalt styrer jeg …<\/p>\n

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